tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8377298907335808674.post4043268076264419728..comments2019-12-17T14:14:17.988-06:00Comments on what passes for sane on a crazy day: It's a Love Story? Part four...Spothttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12761441168024967277noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8377298907335808674.post-61122922375176547342010-01-05T10:51:52.106-06:002010-01-05T10:51:52.106-06:00As strong and heroic as beating an alcohol addicti...As strong and heroic as beating an alcohol addiction is (and it truly is) there is a whole lot of baggage that goes along with being in a relationship with a recovered alcoholic. My father (who is 25 years sober) has put my mom through all kinds of issues and still struggles with parts of his sobriety. He no longer craves the alcohol but all the parts of his personality that got him to that point are still there. He's a wonderful man and a survivor in my book but will never be truly healed from his demons. My opinion? Lu's not ready for that. Keep us posted, Spot (as I know you will). =)<br />Mindy<br />www.thesuburbanlife.commindy@thesuburbanlifehttp://www.thesuburbanlife.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8377298907335808674.post-69200613353466552802010-01-04T21:33:25.690-06:002010-01-04T21:33:25.690-06:00Wow...she's got 'em coming out of the wood...Wow...she's got 'em coming out of the woodworks! I hope Lu can just take a breather for a while...kathrynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06152568985075401447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8377298907335808674.post-20139509310800397522010-01-04T12:20:33.623-06:002010-01-04T12:20:33.623-06:00Tina~ thanks for your optimism!!
DfG~ I hope so. ...Tina~ thanks for your optimism!!<br /><br />DfG~ I hope so. It's so hard to watch them and not meddle.<br /><br />Angelia~ you nailed that boy. He was controlling, possesive, and derogatory. I doubt rehab will be enough to change those things.<br /><br />Heather~ thanks!<br /><br />Dani~ me either. By then, my life should be tame in comparison...hehe.<br /><br />♥SpotSpothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12761441168024967277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8377298907335808674.post-75530320600058543282010-01-04T11:12:28.086-06:002010-01-04T11:12:28.086-06:00total drama island ... I can hardly wait for my tw...total drama island ... I can hardly wait for my two to start dating ... eeeshDanica-Dragonflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13211849231665337448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8377298907335808674.post-9124485763545151802010-01-03T22:59:28.071-06:002010-01-03T22:59:28.071-06:00I hope everything works out for her.I hope everything works out for her.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16979939882187985994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8377298907335808674.post-81950890715384334342010-01-03T21:01:48.666-06:002010-01-03T21:01:48.666-06:00That sweet talker sounds familiar. I was married t...That sweet talker sounds familiar. I was married to one who could talk me out of leaving him every time. I read a book called Verbal Abuse Victims speak out by Patricia Evans, and learned that, actually, he was manipulating me by using my sympathy and compassion to stay with him. Not to mention he would turn me against my mother and sister because, well, they were talking SENSE. What a mess!<br />I haven't read all the parts but I do hope it all works out. Sending warm thoughts your way.Angeliahttp://youthinkyoucanblog.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8377298907335808674.post-53056030483527804072010-01-03T15:53:51.926-06:002010-01-03T15:53:51.926-06:00Oh goodness, you've got some major drama on yo...Oh goodness, you've got some major drama on your hands here! I hope having Lu back home works out well and gets her on her feet and able to make the decisions that will serve her well. She's on her way, and she's got a caring mama to help her out!Dreamfarm Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08494214244290730058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8377298907335808674.post-27530165761398140922010-01-03T13:21:47.275-06:002010-01-03T13:21:47.275-06:00It will all work out! She's made the start an...It will all work out! She's made the start and that's important. Good luck Lu!Tinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06761684333125786758noreply@blogger.com